Friend requests on VKontakte. How to add to Vkontakte friends? How to send an application with a VK message

You can make friends with users within a social network. If a person is on the list of friends, then you get access to view his page (see). This is if it was hidden from other users. Sometimes, they restrict the ability to send messages to users with whom they are not friends (see).

Let's take a look how to add to friends Vkontakte.

How to add a person as friends in VK?

Everything is very simple. It is enough to go to the page to the desired user, and under his avatar, click on the button "Add as Friend"(cm. ).

The specified user will receive a notification that you want to make friends with him. He can accept the application, reject it, or leave you in subscribers (see).

After submitting the application, you are automatically subscribed to the page. You start receiving updates, and you appear in a special list.

By the way, you will go to subscribers even if the person first accepts your application, and then removes it from friends (see).

If you suddenly change your mind, then your application can be canceled. We go to the page to the user, click on the button "Application sent", and in the menu that appears, select the item "Cancel the application".

On the VKontakte social network, one of the most important features of the site is to add friends to the buddy list. Thanks to this functionality, you can significantly expand the scope of interaction with the user you are interested in, so it is important to know by what methods new friends are added.

Any method of sending a friendship invitation on the VK website without fail requires acceptance by the invited person. At the same time, in case of refusal or ignoring of your application, you will be automatically added to the section "Subscribers".

You can exit this section using our instructions.

The person to whom you sent an offer to be friends can easily remove you from the list of subscribers, using, for example, the functionality "Black list".

Due to all of the above, you should prepare for a possible cancellation, which, unfortunately, you will not be notified of. In addition, before proceeding to the methods of adding VK friends, you can familiarize yourself with the material on the topic of removing friends.

Method 1: Sending a request via a standard interface

As you might guess, within the VKontakte website there is a special part of the user interface designed for quick sending of a friend request. Moreover, it is in this way that you can quickly subscribe to the news of the person of interest.

When you send an invitation to a user with more than 1000 subscribers, he will be automatically added to the section "Interesting pages" your profile.

  1. Using your Internet browser, go to the page of the person you want to add to your buddy list.
  2. Find the button under the profile picture "Add as Friend" and click it.
  3. The user may not have the specified button, but instead will have "Subscribe"... If you are faced with such a situation, then just click on the existing button.
  4. You will subscribe to a person, but he will not receive a notification due to special privacy settings.

  5. After successfully sending the invitation, the used button will change to "Application sent".
  6. During the period of consideration of the invitation, you can revoke it by clicking on the previously mentioned inscription and selecting the item "Cancel the application"... If the user did not have time to get acquainted with your application, then it will be automatically deleted.
  7. After receiving approval from the invited person, you will see the inscription "In your friends".

Please note that even if the user ignored your request or removed you from subscribers, you can still send a second invitation. But in this situation, the person you are interested in will not receive a corresponding notification of friendship.

This method is used by the overwhelming majority of users because of its simplicity. However, this is not the only option.

Method 2: Sending a request via search

The internal search system on VKontakte allows you to search for various communities and, more importantly, other people. At the same time, the search interface, subject to authorization, allows you to add a user to the list of buddies without going to a personal profile.

  1. Go to the page "Friends" using the corresponding item of the main menu.
  2. Through the menu located on the right side of the page that opens, switch to the tab "Find friends".
  3. Use the search bar to find the person you want to add as a friend.
  4. Don't forget to use the section "Search options" to speed up the tracing process.
  5. Once you find the block with the desired user, click on the button "Add as Friend" located to the right of the name and photograph.
  6. Just like in the first method, some people have an inscription "Add as Friend" can be changed to "Subscribe".
  7. After using the specified button, the caption will change to "You are subscribed".
  8. To instantly delete the sent invitation, click the button again "You are subscribed".
  9. Having done everything clearly according to the instructions, you just have to wait for the user to approve your application and appear on the list of friends. In this case, the caption on the button will change to "Remove from friends".

Method 3: Accept a friend request

The process of accepting an invitation also has a lot to do with the topic of adding new friends. Moreover, this applies to each previously named method.

  1. As soon as a user sends you a friend request, you will receive a notification via the internal notification system. From here, you can accept or delete it using the buttons "Add as Friend" or "Reject".
  2. With an existing incoming prompt opposite the section "Friends" the main menu of the site will display an icon indicating the availability of new applications.
  3. Go to the page "Friends" using the main menu of the site.
  4. A block will be displayed at the top of the page that opens "Friend requests" with the user who last sent the invitation. Right there you need to find the link "Show all" and go through it.
  5. While on the tab "New", select the person you want to add to your buddy list and click "Add as Friend".
  6. When using the button "Leave in subscribers", the user will be moved to the appropriate section.

  7. If the application is accepted, you will be given the opportunity to choose links. You can ignore this by refreshing the page or leaving the open section.
  8. After accepting the friendship invitation, the user will be in the main list of friends in the section "Friends".
  9. As an addition to this method, it is important to mention that each friend, after the approval of the application, is in the section "New friends", where you can get through the navigation menu from the page "Friends".
  10. All your buddies from first to last will be presented here, in turn.

As you can see, in the application approval process, admitting difficulties is almost impossible if you follow the instructions.

Method 4: VKontakte mobile application

The VK mobile application is as popular today as the full version of the site. In this method, we will touch on two processes at once, namely, sending and accepting a friend request from the official Android application.

As you know, on the VKontakte social network, the user is endowed with fairly large rights and with his page he can do a lot. For example, if he wants, he can close messages from those users who are not his friends. The question arises - how, then, to write a message to this user?

The easiest way is to apply as a friend. The point is that during the application you have the option to add a message. Yes, you will be included in the list of subscribers to this person, but he will receive your message.

This is done in the following way. Go to the user page and click on the "Add to friends" button.

You will see a small fill box. Write your message in it and click on the "Send" button.

The second option, if the first for some reason does not suit you, is to write a message to the friend of this user who has a personal account. You can write to him about your intentions, and this friend will already tell the user what you want from him. Yes, it’s not the best option, but it’s better than nothing.

The third option is to find groups or publics in which this user writes messages. In this case, you can ask him a question that interests you. Another thing is that the user in these communities does not unsubscribe.

How to write VKontakte messages if you are blacklisted?

If the user has brought you in, you will not have the opportunity to write to him, you will not even go to his page. Here's what you'll see:

At best, it will be possible to contact him through friends. Or personally, if you know this person.

Method 1... In the menu on the left, open "My Messages". On the page that opens, there is a button "Write a message", click.

A window has appeared in which you can select a recipient from among friends or (!) Send a message to any person by E-mail.

When writing a message, you can use emoticons and attach files (images, music, videos, documents)

Method 2. Go to the page of the desired user. Under the avatar (main photo) there is a button "Send message"

How to write a message in VK if the user has limited the range of senders?

It so happens that a person has limited the range of users who can send him messages (that is, there is no "Write ..." button under the avatar).

There is still a way out! There is also a button "Add to friends" under the profile picture. VK makes it possible to attach a message to it when sending a friend request!

Therefore, we press "Add as friend" and a window appears in which you can write the text.

This attached message will be sent to the user along with the application in the "My friends" section, it will also be duplicated in "My messages"

Program settings:
  1. If the checkbox is checked, then when the program is minimized to the tray, the program will show notifications about the program's actions in the lower right corner
  2. When the program performs actions, it checks whether any actions have already been taken to this user, if there is no checkmark, then it will only check the list of the function used (i.e. if the program wants to like it, then it only checks the list of users to whom it has already been assigned like), if the checkbox is checked, the program will check all the lists (i.e. if the program wants to like it, then it will check if there are any likes, friend requests, comments sent, messages sent by this user, if any, then will go to the next user, this will not be set)
  3. save selected settings

Adding accounts:

  1. Write here the login of the account you want to add
  2. Write here the password for the account you want to add
  3. Click this button to add an account
  4. If you have several accounts, logins and passwords are saved in a text file, then you can quickly add them, the data should be written in text form in the format login: password, each pair on a new line. Click the "Add from file" button and select a text file with data

Likes

  1. Enables / disables the "like" function
  2. The number of likes that will be delivered to one user (if the photo + post mode is selected, then this amount will be put on both the photo and the post) if the user has fewer photos or posts than you have chosen, then the maximum possible number will be delivered
  3. Mode: photo - puts on the last avatars of the user, post - puts on the last posts on the user's wall, photo + post - puts both on the avatars and on the wall
  4. The interval between likes (the interval is approximate, the program changes it + - 20 sec so as not to get fired up as works)
  5. Query string, similar to in the browser, where you enter the first or last name for the search
  6. Sorts users: by registration date - searches first for users who have recently registered, by popularity - searches for popular users first (with a large number of subscribers)
  7. Select the country where you want to search for users
  8. Select the city where you want to search for users
  9. Select the gender of users
  10. Minimum age
  11. Maximum age
  12. Marital status of users
  13. Interests - searches for users who have the chosen selected in their interests. Write interests separated by commas without spaces, the program will select one of them in turn
  14. The group in which the users are members, enter the group ID (open any group, if the link is https://vk.com/public43415607 then 43415607, if https://vk.com/egoschool then open any post on the wall of this group https: // vk.com/egoschool?w=wall-43415607 _60523) or several commas separated without spaces, the program will search in turn from these groups. Attention! do not use both interests and groups at the same time, if you use both, then the circle of users is narrowed because the chance that the user is in the group and has a very small interest that you indicated
  15. Searches only for users who are online right now
  16. Searches for users who have a photo on their avatar
  17. Saves the specified settings
  18. if the checkbox is checked, then when saving the settings, the program will save these settings to all accounts in the program, if not, then only to the selected one

Friends

Adding messages

  1. Adds a new message (add several messages, the program chooses one at random). The window for adding a message opens.
  2. List of added messages
  3. Displays the selected message in step 2
  4. Modifies the message selected in step 2
  5. Deletes the message selected in step 2
  6. Inserts * username * into the text of the message, when sending the message * username * is replaced with the name of the user to whom it is sent
  7. The message to be sent
  8. Attached files to the message in the format photo222565581_387217455 up to 10 pieces separated by commas without spaces. Open the required file in the browser https://vk.com/id222565581?z=photo222565581_387217455% 2Fphotos222565581 the required format is highlighted in red
  9. Adds a new message

Posts

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Wall

  1. Off - the function is disabled, One record - updates one record specified in p. 4 and p. 5 with an interval of p. 3 (a great way to notify friends and subscribers about a new proposal), Repost from the group - when a new record appears in the group p. 2, the program makes a repost to the user's page (great function for promoting groups)
  2. ID of the group with which to repost at point 1 - Repost from the group
  3. Record update interval
  4. The message to be published in step 1 - one entry
  5. Attached files, which will be, together with the message of item 4, up to 10 pieces separated by commas without spaces
  6. saves settings
  7. if the checkbox is checked, these settings will be saved for all accounts in the program

account settings

  1. The message and attached files that will be sent, be sure to add * username * to the message so that the message is unique
  2. If necessary, specify the country
  3. If necessary, specify the city, the program will send a message to friends, only from this city
  4. Messages - will send a message to all friends in the LAN, Messages only online - will send a message to friends who are currently online, On the wall - will send a message to all friends who have this option open, On the wall only online - Send a message to the wall to friends who is currently online and who has this opportunity (for some users, adding messages to the wall is closed by privacy settings)
  5. starts sending messages


  1. User search criteria
  2. Finds users by specified criteria
  3. How many users were found
  4. Saves users to a table (you can search several times by different criteria and then save everything to a file)